Just caught Ethan sneaking in another episode of The Big Bang
Theory while he was meant to be in the throes of tidying the boys' room with
them (while I tidied Ava's with her, I might add - and I definitely had the
harder task due to both the room and the child!).
He has very quickly become completely addicted to the sitcom
- he's like a junkie having to squeeze in a quick fix before embarking on the
kids' bedtime or cooking the tea (I know - I should be grateful he does these
things in the first place...). But that's Ethan all over - he doesn't do
anything in moderation. He'll eat a whole family size tub of Ben and Jerry's
while he absent-mindedly watches TV (probably back-to-back episodes of The Big
Bang Theory!), a couple of years ago he decided he wanted to get into cycling
and bought not one but two new bikes (and he's barely used either), when he
thought he had a problem with alcohol a couple of years ago, he enrolled in AA,
bought the book (roughly the same size as a Bible) and read it insatiably.
Right now it's The Big Bang Theory that's dominating his
life- it's a TV programme, so that already rates it high on Ethan's pleasure
list. Secondly, in his words, 'it makes him not feel so alone' - he's aware
that the characters aren't real, of course. But the fact that someone out there
knows all about the mental and behavioural make-up of a person with Asperger
Syndrome and has reflected this for the world to see, helps Ethan feel that
he's, in a way, 'normal' - at least normal for a person with Aspergers. And,
although he says that there are the odd moments in the programme that make him
feel pretty depressed (when the guy with Aspergers offends someone or when
other people misunderstand him) for the most part, it does Ethan good to laugh
at some of the, admittedly more extreme, characteristics of Aspergers. It would
probably do us both good - except that, the one episode I watched, in
consolidation with Ethan, I found, erm, well, irritating: not funny - it didn't even muster
a smile, I actually found it quite dull, in an irritating kind of a way. But
maybe that's because I've not got Asperger Syndrome and so I'm not relating to
it - I'm one of those people in the sitcom who misunderstand the central
player.
I'll give another episode a go (it is meant to be the most watched
sitcom currently) so perhaps my episode was a dud, or I'm missing something.
Maybe, the more I watch, the more I'll begin to understand Aspergers and Ethan.
If nothing else, it's something to do together. And, if I can't beat him, I may
as well join him!
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